"I am a survivor of Breast Cancer,
I am a Brother, a Father, a Sister, a Mother, a Daughter, a Son, a Friend.
I carry the scars on the inside, for those that carry the scars on the outside,
I will NEVER feel that helpless again,
I am CHANGING things,
I am an unseen champion,
I am an unsung hero,
I help drag the stories out of the darkness,
I help shine a strong and loving light on those in darkness,
I am guiding survivors toward the light of a better tomorrow,
I am a breastANGELS Supporting Contributor."
 

breastANGELS is a not for profit organisation that
Empowers women impacted by breast cancer in making
their decision about breast reconstruction
Supports women at high risk of developing breast cancer by providing
ANGELS ~ Advice, Nurturing, Guidance, Empathy, Love & Support
Aims to provided funding for breast reconstruction where women have either
had mastectomy because of breast cancer or who are at high risk to develop
breast cancer, but cannot afford the costs.

breastANGELS has been borne completely out of love - the love from and for
my sister Liz Stone and my love of helping people, simple as that.
                                                                            ~ Sharon Tregoning

Accepting With Grace
Mastectomy & Reconstruction,
My Choice Before Breast Cancer.

How one woman broke the curse of cancer

What would you do if doctors discovered
you had a potential 80% chance of getting
breast cancer?

Sharon Tregoning decided to do something.
She’d already lost her sister Bess to breast
cancer, had developed three benign lumps
herself, and was undergoing the
nerve-wracking routine of annual
mammograms and ultrasounds.

What readers are saying ...

“... you are truly amazing to have confronted your decisions the way you have and documented it all in such a light, yet deeply informative read ...

... Don't tell me you aren't brave, and then after all this to go on to write this book to help others (and it will) is sheer compassion and courage ...

... I thought I’d just read a little of your book to go to sleep. I could not put it down ...

... What came through to me was your want and need to help all the women you can ...

... Your book was not a story about Breast (Cancer) Prevention to me,
it was purely motivational, THANKYOU! ...”
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“When I was making my decision and researching options, I found that there
was very little information available for women in my situation -that being high
risk of developing breast cancer.

Once I made my decision to have the surgery, I decided that I would write the
book, and also include very graphic photos, so that women are able to make an
informed decision about what, if any action, to take.” - Sharon Tregoning

An excerpt from Accepting With Grace is now available for you to read.
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The book is available as an eBook or a Soft Cover Print, with the sales of
Accepting With Grace directly supporting breastANGELS.

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Advocacy

Further involvements with breast cancer related forums are :

• Participation in kConFab research into familial breast cancer
• Participation (along with Liz) in the book Positive by Sally Collings which covers positive experiences/outcomes as a result of cancer Read More >
• Participation in a thesis titled Navigating Uncertainty : The Personal and
  Professional Decision-Making landscapes of Bilateral Prophylactic
  Mastectomy by Rebecca Conning

Liz was also a participant in a number of surveys and was quoted in Breast Cancer Network
Australia’s (BCNA) Hope & Hurdles - Information Guide for Women with Secondary Breast
Cancer

Those quotes appear below :

About finding out she had Secondary Breast Cancer
“If you think back over your life, cancer won’t be the only experience that wasn’t welcome.
You’ve learned to live with each of these experiences. You’ve grown, you’ve laughed,
you’ve cried, you’ve still been a friend, partner, mother, lover, etc., you’ve still been a
valuable and precious human being. This news doesn’t change any of that.  It may alter
the way you express who you are, but it doesn’t change who you are as a woman.”

About Faith and Spirituality
“My oncologist asked how does being told I have secondary breast cancer affect my
spiritual journey?  This gives me a focus, a purpose and an opportunity to make meaning.”

And, on Living with Secondary Breast Cancer
“Your greatest support, your greatest strength and the aspect you have the most influence
over is your attitude - the way you think about your experience.  Your thinking will
influence your journey.  I’m not for a second saying that you always have to be happy and
jolly - that would be to live a phoney life. Just be real.  Enjoy the good days; continue to
love yourself on the not-so-good days.  Be alert or aware of how your thinking, your
attitude influences your experience.  Above all, listen to yourself.  Know deep within that
whether you have cancer or not, whether you are well or not, know that you are lovable
and acceptable.”

This one is my favourite and sits on the wall next to my desk.
This, I believe, is an important message for all of us - cancer or not.

Sharon Tregoning
Founder
 

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